To achieve success in conversations, it is crucial not to mentally check out during discussions. Using verbal fillers like “mm” and “ah” can show engagement. While speakers should avoid fillers, listeners can use them along with non-verbal cues such as nodding. Paying attention to the speaker’s non-verbal signals—such as excitement or disinterest—can provide additional context. Asking the right questions at the right time encourages the speaker to elaborate on specific issues, showcasing your knowledge and enhancing the conversation. Allowing the speaker to talk without interruptions that might cause distractions or forgetfulness contributes to successful listening. This skill, often employed by psychologists, can be surprisingly rewarding in various aspects of life, underscoring its value.